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Okay, so I’ve sold a lot on Vinted and thankfully never had any problems until now

Apparently, Vinted provided the wrong shipping label/tracking info and everything got messed up. The tracking number on the actual shipping label was different from the tracking number shown in the app to me and the buyer. I only discovered this AFTER I had already dropped the package off with DPD.

I still have the receipt from the drop off point showing the buyer’s ZIP code and proof that I shipped it, but the receipt has the “other” tracking number on it. I thought I was doing the right thing by sending the buyer the updated tracking number manually

Big mistake.

Today the buyer got refunded AND apparently received the dress too. So now she has both the item and the money back.

Vinted support is basically telling me it’s my fault because I “used a shipping label not provided by them” even tho it literally WAS the label generated thru Vinted.

Has anyone experienced something like this before? It was only €20, but honestly it’s made me really anxious about selling on Vinted again because I don’t want this happening another time

My fiancé likes taking our 1 year old to the park on weekends. I usually don’t go, and instead stay home and clean the apartment. Honestly, I enjoy it. It’s the only time I get to be alone without someone constantly needing something from me. I vacuum, do laundry, clean the floors, everything. I’ve even joked that he should see it as having a free housekeeper. Now he’s turning it into a whole issue. He says I’m “avoiding” the park and that it’s sad I don’t go with them. He’s even suggested I have some kind of problem and claims our daughter is going to “pick up on it” or sense I have social anxiety (??). She’s ONE.

The thing is I don’t have a problem going outside. I just don’t want to sit in a hot park on a blanket. I never get alone time at home, so when they leave, I actually look forward to that quiet. On top of that, I’m still not comfortable in my body after pregnancy. Most of my clothes don’t fit, I feel super pale, and I developed keratosis pilaris, which has made me even more self conscious. The idea of sitting in the sun in summer clothes just makes me uncomfortable not relaxed.

I don’t understand why this is so hard for him to accept. It’s not like I’m refusing to ever spend time together or go outside I just don’t enjoy that specific activity right now. But he keeps pushing and getting annoyed like I’m doing something wrong

Am I being unreasonable here?