I ghosted this person about 6 months ago because of my mental health and other personal issues. They were quite upset and texted me a lot trying to figure out what happened and trying to get me to respond which I didn’t. They don’t text me anymore but every once in a while they’ll send me money through Cash App with notes like “I hope you are well” or “here’s a coffee on me” etc. it’s like once every 2 months or so and I do accept the funds. I’ve never given this person a reason to believe I want to talk to them again and never tried to explain myself I just dropped out. This person no longer texts me or tries to get ahold of me in any other way so I’m confused. Is this them trying to manipulate the situation or do they genuinely care that much? Is it wrong that I accept the money but never reply? This relationship was completely platonic. No sex, no dating, just two souls that connected at one point.
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Long story short, I was close with a coworker and they moved like 11 hours away. Before she left, me and another friend made plans to come see her this summer. She was excited about this and we continued to text back and forth for awhile. I know that her job in the new place she moved, did not work out and she expressed she was having mental health issues. Without warning she completely cut me off. Quit replying to me completely and blocked me on everything but Cash App. I’m broken hearted because I spent a lot of time saving money and now she won’t even respond to me or the other friend that I planned the trip with.. however we still plan on going and the other friend wants to just show up at her house and see if she’ll even talk to us. I feel like that’s a little to far but at the same time I have zero patience for this ghosting bull shit and any form of closure would be better then none. We also have no ill intentions and would leave if she told us to. Is this going to far? Should we just leave things be, or do we have a right to want an explanation, talk to her, etc.?? TIA