u/Albatross-Street

I(31M) wanted to break up with my girl(31F) but now I'm torn to pieces

My girlfriend(31F) and I(31M) have been together for 2 years, before our relationship was good we are genuinely happy but she and my mother(69F) don't get along that well, I'm living with my mother she's sick, mild stroke and diabetes, my girlfriend lives with us but only for Friday night until monday morning only, my mother is a sweet woman kind of a bit talkative and my girlfriend kinda don't like that, she finds it annoying and unbearable.

When we were talking about our future my girlfriend said she doesn't want my mother to live with us, and I was taken a back when she said that, my mother only got me since my father just passed away last year and I really want her to live with me and my wife in the future.

I talked to her about it and she's persistent and I'm thinking that the best way is to just give her what she wants.

I tried to give her what she wants but deep down inside I can't leave my mother alone I'm all that she has, even tho it's okay to my mother if i leave her because thats just how it is but it's not okay for me.

Now she's trying to leave me because of it and I let her go, but deep inside I can't, I really love her and it hurts me so much. I don't know what to do anymore?

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u/Albatross-Street — 1 day ago