u/Albatross-6146

I (M21) want to go to therapy to help me with my social anxiety. I have no friends and barely any social life. And I know this is probably related to my problem, but when I tell the therapist about my life I'm afraid that they will think that I'm a loser, who has no life. Do therapist really not judge people?

Also I know this probably gets asked, but I feel like I could maybe open up more to a female therapist. Is this weird? To specifically want a female therapist as a male?