Any positive stories from cheating??
Hi!
I haven’t had sex with my spouse in years and I am deprived of affection, emotional connection, and desire.
Us, late 30s. Me-female, husband-male
I’m contemplating cheating and have some doubts and fears. I tried to ask for permission but was told it was not given it.
My choices are:
continue to hope couples therapy will help us
continue to accept the relationship as it is
have an affair and get the connection I need
separate and end the relationship
With a child, #4 isn’t my favorite option but I fear if I stay I am choosing #2.
So I am wondering about route #3. Any success stories? Genuinely I think if I am emotionally investing myself outside of the marriage, it could create a void that may make my husband realize something is going wrong.
I’d love your feedback.