u/Alarmed-Method-6949

So just last week I went to visit my dear friend, it's been awhile since we link up. I drove to her because she have other things to work on and I believe her car still doesn't work. Well as we are catching up, of course the conversation is about men 😂... I have nothing against them, I see them for who they are lol. But she proceeds to tell me ,that this one dude she talks with, every time they are intimate he releases in her. Then ghosting her 3 to 5 days.. she mentions this pretty much happens every time. He provide fake fantasies, talking about he's going to marry her and move her into a big house, she could wifey...etc... All the things men say to get you going.. so I told her the truth, I said if you're going to have a second baby, make sure you have it for you and that you are able to provide what the baby needs. I think also too, another part of me was thinking if she did proceed with the pregnancy to birth, would our friendship end? We have been good friends for a good 10 years and she is definitely like a sister to me. We always say to each other ,nobody knows us like how we know us.. and I also mentioned to her, about how she feels when it comes to overstimulation. I asked her about finances and if she had this baby ,would she be happy or regret it? If a woman want kids, use your discernment and intuition that the most high bless you with and get with someone who wants to be a father. Regardless of what happens between you and him. I'm not here to change anybody mind , that's not my journey, but I will provide the best advice I can.