I think it might be over...
Alright, My wife and I separated a month and a half ago over boundaries that weren't being respected, and because I had learned last year that she had spent 2.5 years sending nudes via snapchat to friends of hers during our marriage. I also learned that at least 2 of the men she was sending these to had been at my house but "Nothing happened" Still not sure I believe that. Anyways, I told her I wanted to see if I could heal, but for us to move forward that she must not have Snapchat. Well I found out over the weekend that around the time we separated that she redownloaded snapchat. IDK what shes doing on it, I asked her about it and she said "I'm using it to talk to my sisters" also mentioned she had deleted it but when I saw her yesterday at church she was actively on it. Honestly I don't know the goal of this post past letting out some of the emotions. I don't want it to be over, I don't wan't my kids to be raised in 2 households, but clearly she lacks any respect for me or very clear boundaries. So I feel like my hand is forced. I feel so sad right now.