Throwaway account for obvious accounts.
I (18F) decided to try out Hinge for a while and matched with a girl (18F) when she liked my prompt. We hit it off immediately, and we were already making plans to meet up and go on a cute date.
I did casually mention that I wouldn't have minded meeting up with her the same day that we started talking, since she lives really close by (only 10 minutes away from my place), but I wasn't really being that serious about it, and it was more or less to express that we were getting along really well. The girl responded to this by expressing the same sentiments and that it would've been fun to do it.
Now, a day after we met, I was feeling extremely bored at the end of the day (all my friends had prior engagements and parties), and I genuinely didn't feel like just sitting down and watching YouTube by myself, which is why I texted her around 8 pm and asked if she wanted to come over and just hang out. She replied immediately and said that she would've definitely come over if I had told her a bit in advance, but it was probably too late now. I thought she was worried about cycling back in the dark, and so I offered for her to stay the night over, since I have my own place but also said that it was fine if she didn't wanna come. She then responded with, "that's so sweet but I think it's too fast".
I actually didn't mean for it to come off like that, and so I just told her that I was genuinely bored and wanted to just do something nice together, no other intentions, and again reiterated that it was fine, and I didn't wanna make her uncomfortable, of course. She stopped replying after this, and while I first assumed that she was just really busy, it seemed pretty weird to me that she went from replying almost immediately to having me on delivered for an entire day. I did text her casually asking her if she was busy, but she still hasn't replied so I'm pretty sure she's ghosted me (she's still following me though). I feel like I should ask her if something I said made her uncomfortable, but Im not sure and I don't really see how our last conversation was weird.
So, am I overreacting or did I unintentionally come off as creepy, or weird or desperate?
EDIT: I think the comments are misunderstanding, but I'm not a guy. I've literally mentioned 18F at the top. Not saying that it makes it better, just clarifying.