Problem/Goal:
hello I just want to share our experience in our first time sex and ask some advices and questions just to ease our mind. If we do it right or not. Also seeking advice what to do next, thank you.
Context:
My girlfriend and I are in our early 20s and in our 5 years rs. Before we had sex, we did our research and preparation. (before you read the whole context, we know we're so anxious in this post or sound like oa because its our first time so please bear with me reading it or just skip it 🙂)
We had protected sex for the first time on April 27. Her last period was April 18 to 23. Based on her app, her fertile window starts April 30 and ovulation starts May 5. We used a condom and did the withdrawal method (ejaculate outside of her while still wearing the condom) but we were still afraid she might get pregnant. She did the Yuzpe method 5 hours after sex (Ik it was so unnecessary but she insist. She use the trust pills the pink one). She vomited 8 hours after the first 4 pill but ik it already dissolved in her body. She took the remaining 4 pills 12 hours after the first set.
We had 2 rounds of sex. I put the condom on correctly by leaving some space and no air at the tip. The condom was easy to roll down to the base. It was the right size because I did a research how to find the right size of condom. We are worried about micro-tears and leaks cause of friction and her sharp nails touching the condom while trying to put it inside her, we also forgot to buy water-based lube. We overthinking that sperm or pre-cum might have passed through that micro tear even though I pulled out. We checked for leaks afterward. We aren't sure if we checked well enough but the condom looked intact and the sperm is still inside. The only liquid we feel on the outside of the condom was from her hopefully.
Right now 6 days have passed, she feel the side effect of the pills and she said its pretty manageable and still no bleeding.
(We just have sex out of curiosity in our 5 years of rs and we might do it again since we like it, so we really need advice on our next sex)
Previous Attempt:
None
Qustions:
Does micro tear can make the condom break widely open or not?
are we really safe on our method?
any other contraceptive pills do you guys recommend and how to take it? I don't want my gf to take yuzpe method again because of its side effects
When will the bleeding likely to start? her next menstruation start on may 19 based on the app
any advices if we're gonna do it again, just to ease and lessen our anxious or overthinking.