What do i(19f) do if my gf(19f) refuses to do my love language even though i do hers?
my gfs love languages are mostly words of affirmation but she enjoys gifts and time. Mine is physical touch i’ve told her and hinted and even outright told her i need physical touch in relationships. It’s not sexual either and i’ve told her abt different things she can do and have not forced her. She will only show me affection through her love languages and lots of gift giving and gets really upset when i talk abt how i feel we are incompatible because we have different love languages and aren’t able to show affection to eachother how we want. I’ve also changed how i text cause i abbriviatw and don’t really think much about how i text until she told me it was an issue and quickly changed it. I compliment her daily constantly day i love you and if we aren’t together in person i text or facetime her to try to show affection the best i can. When i ask her we get in arguments and she calls me names and tells at me over pda and when i ask her in private when we’re alone she will hug me or just have me kiss her and play with her hair but it’s been returned to me once or twice and i can’t even count how many times ive done the things i want done to myself to her and ive clearly communicated while i love doing those things to her i want them done to me too. Ive also brang up physical touch before and she just makes it a joke abt sex and says thats the type she likes. I feel so hopeless cause she’ll also text me all these sweet things about how she’s going to cuddle me and kiss me and do all of these things then she’ll cancel last minute or just say she’s not in the mood. idk what to do cause besides this i love her and i really don’t want to break up but it’s been a little over 2 years and this has been brought up almost monthly. i also dnt know if this is important or changes opinions but im a lesbian.