u/AirKayak

Would really appreciate some advice from this group. I recently got a 4ct lab diamond cushion cut solitaire on a plain band. It is gorgeous. I am having some hangups about wearing it outside. I am worried that it'll look too gaudy or costume like. How do you decide when a ring is simply large vs gaudy? How do I get myself to feel more comfortable wearing it outside? I was going to ask whether I should downgrade it to a smaller stone but then I remembered where I am posting! 😆