Hey guys
We are in Malaysia for my best friend's 30th!! Love the city and the people
So we thought of doing a spontaneous trip to Langkawi for 3 days
The plane prices are out of our planned budget & there seems to be no trains available till the 19th
So our question is: are there private car services that provide this for a maximum of 600 for 3 people?
Hey
So im (29F) in a serious relationship with my man (36F) & are meant to get married this year.
He has a 4 year old daughter from a previous relationship. I've never met the girl (we are long distance and he travels to my city to see me) as I've never been in their city. However, I come from a big family where i took carw of baby siblings and am generally good with kids. He is an amazing guy, communicative, financially free, shares my values and life goals and overall its a great partnership.
My cousins found out about him from mom and aunts since things are getting serious now and almost all of them told me that I will most likely regret this marriage and that he will go back to his ex.
He doesn't exactly like his ex. I dont think she is a bad person I just think shes not fully over him and thats why she is being problematic which is why I always tell him to take it easy on her and try to understand her POV However, because some of the things she has done/said to him he thinks she is pure evil (shes not shes just a dummy). He doesnt feel strongly towards the whole thing but when/if something arises he always throws comments like "you're analyzing her as if shes you but udk who she is" or "be careful not to trust the weasel" 🤣
We are all Arab Muslim & this child was out of wedlock (she basically baby trapped him from how the story looks but I didn't tell him thats my assumption) & the "right" Muslim thing to do was to marry her However he said he wasn't gonna fix a mistake by committing another mistake and will just honor the child
He is a super present father and amazing to the baby girl & provides for her a very good life (private schools, private extra curriculars, bday trips etc)
Obv I always knew this was something that I need to learn to navigate & I was excited for loving on her like a bonus mom but the cousins talking and all the stuff I saw here got me freaking out 🥲
Im just confused and would appreciate some insight on whether this marriage is something I should reconsider or not.