So a few days ago me and my boyfriend had an argument where i told him “if you hate how i was uncomfortable that much then maybe im not the right person for you”. I had said that because the day before we had a conversation where he expressed his frustration that he felt alone because he couldn’t talk about a topic because I was uncomfortable. He had also said that him and his ex talked about the topic after 2 months and despite him telling me that he wasn’t comparing us I just felt upset that he said that. So that’s why I said that and I do regret saying that because I felt like it was too harsh and he got really upset thinking that I want to leave (which i don’t at the moment). He had told me that I misunderstood and that he feels bad when I blame him but I wasn’t trying to I just express my feelings. Maybe I did misunderstand because he did say he doesn’t want to force me to talk about it but I don’t know if his actions reflect that because we will avoid it and he will bring it up again and i told him I just need time to become more comfortable and he said he will give me time. And I do need to improve on how I communicate my feelings because I tend to say hurtful things when I’m overwhelmed. Anyways I tried to apologise and tell him that I don’t want to leave and that I was sorry for what I had said and that I do want him but also telling him that I was just trying to express my feelings. But now he hasn’t responded to that message in 4 days and im not sure if i should send another message or just keep on waiting?
**TL;DR; : Basically we had an argument where i said “if you hate how im uncomfortable then maybe im not the right person” he got upset saying i misunderstood and now he’s ignored my message for 4 days. What should i do? Message him again or wait? **.