Hello,
Context: I am Asian while my gf is Hispanic. My parents only want me to marry in our own culture and want me to have an arranged marriage. I haven’t told my parents that I have Hispanic gf. My mom really wants me to marry in my own race but I love my gf so much. Today I met my gf parents and they were so nice. Like they don’t mind at all that I was not from their culture but if I tell my parents they would flip out. I told my mom that I like this Hispanic girl and I want to be with her but she started crying and telling me that she and my dad will ☠️ themselves if I marry outside of our race. Thst is so stupid. We moved to us in 2020. Like I would go with their choice most of the time but this decision is so important. If I end up marrying my gf that would mean I’d lose my parents as they would disown me. I am 20m and my gf is 20f. Like my parents end up bringing how god wouldn’t want me marrying outside of my race and bible says so and so. This is so selfish. I can’t imagine myself with anyone but my gf. Like not crazy obsession but my parents should respect my choice still i am not a kid anymore. Like how can I make my parents accept this?