u/Agreeable_Custard178

we are in an open relationship but i gave my limitations, i told him that i can only allow him to do orally with others, as I would like us to be safer on anal sex. turns out he's looking for another top to bot him, even wanted to schedule it at our place.

of course, i kind of felt disrespected, i just requested for a small boundary given that i have been very open to what he wanted. but the other part of me felt like it was inevitable because we are already in an open relationship so what should I expect.

i dunno what to do.