This is something I’ve dealt with from my parents. Whenever I tell them how they have hurt me they say “you still are holding onto things from that long ago?, stop holding grudges.” Or they tell me I’m too sensitive
Today is Easter and they wanted me to wear something becasue everyone else was wearing it. I didn’t feel comfortable wearing it so I put on something else that was the same colour as what they were wearing. My dad came into the room to see if I was getting dressed and I was wearing something else.(collared white shirt and blue jeans) He said “what are you wearing” and I said I didn’t like the other clothes. He got mad and said if I didn’t put it on he would leave me at home by myself. My mom came into the room and asked why I didn’t wear it, but I didn’t respond becasue she would get mad at any response I said.
Then they left the house to go to church