I like a girl from my school she is a grade below me, but I only have a couple of months left before I leave and I don’t know if I should try to talk to her again or just move on.
I followed her on Instagram at one point, but she didn’t follow me back. After that, I also spoke to one of her friends, and her friend told me that she’s very focused on her studies and that she has never really seen her involved with any guys or relationships before.
A while later, I decided to talk to her directly in person. When I approached her, we talked and she said it wasn’t because of me and that she didn’t want me to feel bad, but that she wasn’t interested in being in a relationship with anyone at all at the moment. She said it quite quickly because she had classes and was in a bit of a rush.
At the end of the conversation, I told her my intention was just to get to know her better. She was already leaving and just said something like we’ll see each other at school.
After that, I didn’t really talk to her again because I didn’t want to make her uncomfortable or force anything.
I’ve never been in a relationship either, just like her. I’d say I’m quite a good-looking guy and people around me often tell me that. But after that conversation, I actually started liking her more — her smile, the way she talks, her eyes… I just can’t stop thinking about her.
Since then, a few months have passed. We don’t talk, but every time we walk by each other we make eye contact at school, sometimes i see her friends looking at me while she is with them.
The problem is I get nervous and end up avoiding her like walk by and don’t make eye contact because my friends scream while she is beside me and makes me nervous and i think it can make her uncomfortable. I don’t want to bother her, but at the same time I can’t stop thinking about her.
Any advice?