For context, a week before this chat she told me that her best friend doubted me and wasn't happy with our relationship and that made her think if we should continue being together or not. I tried to reassure her but she was going on and off about it and said that it is best if we just end the relationship and continue to date instead. Then after a day or two she was spewing this bs about that we should have a talk and that she still loves me and did not mean any of that. I was already at a point where I felt like this is too much drama for someone who never really valued any of the efforts I made and was constantly complaining and nagging about pretty much everything (like I get that life sucks, but you gotta thug it out sometimes instead of literally crying in every situation).
Cherry on top, when I said that I've had enough of this and that I have agreed to end the relationship once and for all (as she had suggested earlier), she was like that "no I didn't mean it in that way". Like btch please don't go around saying all that now, I am not letting myself get used like that. Moreover, I don't know if it is just her or whether girls in general are like this, but she felt entitled to quite literally everything (whether it be labubu, flowers on EVERY date, stanley cup, and a freaking birthday gift on my own birthday, wtf?). Like man I ain't the rich or the elite here, just a middle class guy trying to get by in this god forsaken country.
Moving on, she started with "I'm ending it" theatrics as you can see above, which did not hold true. And then she was asking for her beadbox back the next day, which I did return back. Honestly, good luck to the person in question, I hope you find yourself a rich dude who is willing to put up with you.
For me, this was my first legit-legit relationship (and quite a horrible experience might I add), the other was a college situationship with a senior (she graduated 4 months after we met). But I'm grateful for how things unfolded, it finally made me lock tf in, and quote unquote made me realise that maybe the concept of modern relationships and dating aren't meant for me. For now I'm aspire to be the cool unc and a "wizard" if you will (time will tell, how that is going to hold tho). But hey, goodluck to everyone else.
Let there be peace and love.