u/Aggravating_Storm497

Hey all. Kicking off the planning process and just have no idea where to start. Vendors ask about vision in the inquiry forms and I have no idea. I am not someone who is used to glam or wearing make up and to be blunt I’m an attorney and have a pretty clinical view of marriage that can be hard to shut off at times. My first choice would be to elope with no one but my fiance and not have any sort of celebration after to avoid the extra attention. This would make family and my fiancé sad so I am open to other options, just don’t have a “vision”. Fiance said his only vision is having a live band as we love live music. Any advice on where to start for someone who feels totally out of place navigating this process?