u/Aggravating_Law_6406

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Suddenly getting attention from women

I'm 17yo and never had a gf

I'd say I'm bad at talking to women, that's chang a bit but not significantly

I haven't gotten a lot of attention from girls in my life but over the past few months something changed...

(Probably because I'm in a relatively famous local metal band)

I heard a girl had a big crush on me and always asks my brother about me and stuff like that. The problem is I just don't like her, I cut her of as nicely as I could but she won't give up.

I heard that some girls that I even don't know like me

And yesterday a female friend told me that a girl from my school (really attractive) asked why is she following me and how does she know me (I've never even talked to her).

Usually when you ask a famous band member if being in a band gets you a lot of girls, he'll say "nah, only men"

I'm really wondering if that's because I'm in a band and that would still be unusual

Most of the girls that like me don't even like metal to say they have a celebrity crush.

That's really strange for me how drastically everything changed and I'm scared my confidence and narcissism is going up and I'm not sure if that's entirely good 🤣

And when I have some options now I'm really wondering what should I do because I'm really picky with that stuff

Is that a test from God? 🤣

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u/Aggravating_Law_6406 — 4 days ago