u/Aggravating-Web-3927

So I recently went to my aunt's house and her daughter is married nearly to her mother's (my aunt's) house. Her daughter has 6 children. Her husband works abroad.

Imagine giving birth to 6 children. How painful it would be.

It's their personal matter so who I am to question things. But the point is none of their children are well mannered. I mean they are disrespectful, stubborn and use bad language especially boys. The younger one punched me once to see how i would react. I didn't so he punched me again. Like I'm minding my own business. When he teased everyone soo much his mother slapped him so hard. But that's not a way to teach him manners.

Isn't it unfair for her to give birth to 6 children, raise them,educate them and do house chores.plus his husband is very disrespectful and controlling.

I mean they literally aren't raising their children well.

Then What's the point of giving birth to 6 children while you can't even raise one well.

If you give birth to one child, raise him well, teach him manners, make him empathetic. It's worth more than 10 unmannered, illiterate and cruel children.

Is giving birth and raising children only the duty of their mother. Ik man works hard for their family but it's soo unfair for women to give birth to as many children as he wanted.

Plus there was so much discrimination between a son and a daughter. Father came home for an hour and bought toys for his son but he didn't even looked at his newborn girl. Her mother was handling everything all alone. Plus he buys his son a new toy everyday but doesn't give his wife even 200 rupees a day.

Girls and boys please share your thoughts on this!!!