u/Aggravating-Travel46

It took me 2 years to get pregnant and 2 late first tri miscarriages. Im now 22 weeks and due in September. My SIL got pregnant in one month of trying and due 2 months after me. Today she sent me a weird tik tok basically commenting it took her quick to get pregnant. A little insensitive to send to me of all people right? To top if off she messaged me she wants her shower the month im due..is it wrong if I simply cant commit to that? I dont plan on leaving my home at all the first month let alone weeks with my newborn for anyone.