I want to leave my marriage
Without getting into it too much I have been married for 9 years and have two children who I love and adore. There’s too much background to go into but my husband and his family have put me through a lot and they completely ruined me and my confidence. Alhamdulillah now I am in a better place physically and mentally. Now that I can think clearly I can see the amount I have put up with and the sacrifices I have made. I have told my husband I no longer love him or want to be with him and for him to begin the process of selling the house so we can go our separate ways. He has suddenly now started changing. 9 years of asking, no, begging for the BARE minimum and for context the bare minimum being paying the bills and paying for the kids needs not even mine he has now shown me he could have always been this type of man but chose not to he which in all honesty has made me feel even more hurt. But the line I have for not leaving is the same as everyone else’s which is insta for my kids. I don’t know what to do. He’s currently scared I’m going to run off with someone else and in all honesty sometimes that’s all I want do.