Hey guys, so a little context. My girlfriend moved in with me 7 months ago. She has a rat terrier that she got from a shelter 9 years ago. I don’t like dogs at all, just a personal preference. They smell, they are too loud, require too mush maintenance…just not something I ever wanted to deal with in my life. But I love her and i wasn’t going to make her choose so obviously her dog moved in too. After a while we found a routine. I would walk the dog at night and she would do it in the morning. Except she’s been asking me to get up and do it in the mornings more and more often. Obviously, I’d do it without hesitation if she had like a super early shift at work or was sick or something. But she’s been trying to get me to do it simply because she doesn’t want to get out of bed. The hardest part about this for me is that while I have gotten up and done it several times, she wouldn’t do the same for me at night. She’s walked him at night exactly 4 times since moving in. And for all of those time I was either out of town or so sick I couldn’t get up. Sometimes I come home from work or being with my family and I’m exhausted and overwhelmed and she will offer to walk him tonight, except the one time I said “yes please. I don’t think I can tonight” she went back on it and said she was offering just to sound nice not because she would actually do it. So I had to get back up and walk him.
This morning it was getting close to when she would normally walk him and she asked me if I would because she has a thing at 12 that she apparently needs 3 hours to get ready for. I said no which she clearly didn’t expect and pointed out that it was her responsibility to walk her own dog and if she needed so much time to get ready she should have gotten up sooner. She got really quiet for a minute then got up and got dressed angrily and left to walk him. She hasn’t said a word to me since. What am I supposed to do here?