I need advice. I went to the ER because I saw that I had blood in my urine, Irving too crazy and it someone turned out I was fine. I won’t be able to pay this bill of $3K however even with my job. I was wondering what are my options, including the ones where I could avoid paying it at all.
My insurance told me that I wasn’t covered during the month of the visit but claims paid off a bill of $600 ish already which is what I’m confused about
I have to get this off my chest. When I used to work at my last job I ended up hooking up with this one chick. Mind you, when we did, I was brand new to the place and went to a party where EVERYONE was drinking, even me. Now of course I’m not the type to usually hook up with someone when alcohol is involved but that night my inhibitions were low for obvious reasons.
Anyway, the chick comes in with a drink in her hand (at least I think it was because I don’t know every drink out there) and she gave no inclination of ever being drunk. There was no stumbling, no slurring words, no indication to say she was drunk. She grabs my hand and takes me back to her van where we hook up.
The next day I’m trying to find out who the chick was because I didn’t even get her name. Luckily I knew she was friends with someone we were mutual friends with so I asked her if she had her number or if she wanted to be friends or anything? In the end I guess it was just a one time thing but fast forward and I find out that she was mad because I forgot her name (I’m honestly terrible with names but I never forget faces lol).
In the time that followed since then we spoke to each other in passing. Not arguing but saying things like hi & acknowledging each others presence. She even jokingly asked “whats my name”? Which okay by then I figured it out. Then fast forward to a Halloween party and her drunk friend comes over to me trying to fight me because I forgot her name.
After that i make an incident report with housing which is still on file even though I’m no longer there. I confide in a few friends about the situation because some of them would hang in groups where she would be at so if they asked me why I wasn’t over there then that was the reason. Well one of those friends turns out to be a snake and tells her what I said then she gets mad that I was telling people (normally I wouldn’t but I had to get the story straight with someone).
Not long after that she tells the betrayer that we hooked up and that she doesn’t REMEMBER! Mind you, by this point and even now, it’s been MONTHS (seven and a half) since we hooked up and she still hasn’t went to anyone which, sensibly, would happen that night or the next day if that was what actually happened.
Not too long ago, I noticed my follower count on IG had gone down. It’s not the count I cared about that was the problem, it’s the people that were following me that was going off in my head. Mutual friends between me and the dude all started to unfollow me. Even my ex (I found out later he wanted her even while we were friends) started to push me away and when we were dating I was NEVER a bad bf. It was a short relationship but we enjoyed every minute of each other. Regardless, she started pushing me away too despite us remains “friends”.
At this point i just don’t know what to do. I always fear retaliation over something that didn’t even happen and, while I have proof she was saying something completely different as well as people who have also had negative experiences with her, I still fear she could make that false claim. I honestly didn’t know who to go with this because I feared being judge and my anxiety is through the roof on some days
Just got hired over at the park. As a new employee, anything i should know about? Also how’s the crowd? Is it older or younger?