u/Agentnos314

I've always been attracted to men much older. Conversely, there are men who are attracted to much younger. As long as the behavior is between two consenting individuals of legal age, there's nothing wrong.

That said, people may think that relationships between a 40 y.o and an 18 y.o may be immoral. They have a right to think that. That said, some of the behavior from the "it's immoral" crowd mimics the behavior of those who condemn homosexuality as "immoral".

To me, a gay man who calls a 40 y.o. "immoral" for dating an 18 y.o. is no different than a right-wing fundamentalist ranting about the "immorality" of homosexuality.