I am scared picking myself would break my moms heart.
I'm graduating college this June, i want to stay in the city i am (i think) for now. i feel like i should move home because i am the kid to make my mom an empty nester and she is alone, she has my dad but doesn't let him in and they recently moved states so she doesnt have close friends there. i feel like id be moving back out of guilt, guilt that i am her sense of happiness. i love my family so much. i need my mom to tell me its okay if i dont come back. i need to know shed take care of herself, like starting therapy. i feel like a bad daughter for picking myself. parents, mothers who put ther soul into their children, what should i do?
i dont want to go backwards and move home, i want to keep growing. adults that went through this, what should i do? any advice would help.