u/AgentMG2011

this is a bit of a long story so i'll put a shorter one in the comments. as a bit of context, this happened like 7-8 month ago, i (14m) and my "friend" (13m) were friends for like 4-5 years but i was already thinking about telling him to frick off because he was litteraly abusing me (lies everytime for everything, enormous crashouts for the simplest things, random punches and kicks,insults on the regular, ect...) but i was hesitant cuz i was kinda his only friend (now i see why...) and i felt bad for him. Anyway we were chilling at the bus stop and i asked him if he wanted to go try and shoot in the shooting club that i am in, BUT then i remembered that HE told me that his dad did NOT want him to shoot ever so i said no right after, he then tried to lie by saying something like "yeah but he said that for my 13th birthday it's fine" after i kept telling him no cuz i ain't that stupid he crashed out, telling a bunch of insults ect... once the bus came he left and that was it. Or so i thought because the next day (a friday) i had a bunch of friends telling me why i punched him, i kept saying that i didn't do anything and that he was just overracting, but i was still kinda worried cuz multiple of my friends still believed him, then at recess i asked someone if he said something to him and, i kid you not, he said "oh yeah, he told me that you tried to kill him or something" i, then immediatly rushed to where he usually is during recess, i see him smilling, laughing and stuff with some of our friends like everyone who allegedly almost got killed the day before, as soon as he saw me he went like :( then his friends blocked me from talking to him, he kept throwing insults until i left because i couldn't do anything. He even went crying to my crush and she told him and i quote" Man idgaf bout you, you are a friend of a friend"(that was so funny when she told me that) at that point i was stressing as hell (i mean who wouldn't) one of my oldest friends even asked me if this was true. Long story short, i contacted his mom (he gave me her number in case of emergency, some of my friends told me later that he said that he was mad because of this) she once already sided with me in one of his earlier big crashouts (this was his 4th one i think) but she was of no help there so i contacted my parents wich talked to his parents and it was apparently resolved, altough i got reprimanded by my dad because apparently i should've gone to them first, but i think that's dumb, like your kid is doing litteral diffamation and ruining the social life of his best friend, kinda sounds like your issue not the one of the other parents. after that i did not sleep much for the next week because of the stress and how baffled i was. Anyway some of my once called friends still don't talk to me anymore and he did everything in his power to stay faaar away from me, he even took a completly different bus to somewhere kinda close and asked his parents to get him back home (a friend told me that i ain't a stalker) to this day he still don't even get within 10 meters of me if possible. Honestly i get that you can get mad for that (even if i was bc of his own lie) but to go to almost every one of your best friend's friends and your friends too and tell them that i tried to kill him is a bit far no?