u/AgeMission7511

I am a female 35 and My husband (35years) wants to resign his job and we have a 5year old kid and I am pregnant as well again. since I have a job he wants to do business and take care of him for next five years. He has no prior experience in business and he wanted to leave his government job.

He is under stress in job he is stating working 10 am to 7.30 pm in same place cause him stress he stated. Because of this he is not even talking to me , not smiling at me if I asked am under stress pressure unable to talk but to my daughter he is talking good. mentioned he talks to her to relive stress.

to me our jobs are the main thing we can take up our financial situation and I once gave him hope to leave his job and withdrew it for which he called me a traitor till date.

i mentioned him to start business while he is at job then we can take care of business once developed. Then you can leave the job. stay for next five years alone. He is not agreeing to this also.

i am unable to take the fact that he is putting me under stress when am pregnant. He never did this in the past now don’t know why he is like this. Need an honest advice how to overcome this situation. should I be silent and over come

divorce options are not on my cards so please exclude that. I love him a lot still thinking this is just a situation to overcome.

TL;DR need a a honest advice of how to overcome this situation

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u/AgeMission7511 — 7 days ago