Divorce
Hello, I’ve been in for almost four years now. I have a 3 year old son and another on the way. I want to divorce my husband and don’t know how to even start. I keep searching things up but I’m still somewhat confused. We have been together for 7 years and married for 3, today was the last straw. It’s Mother’s Day and he didn’t even bother to make me anything/ get my anything. Didn’t even bother to make me breakfast. Just nothing. When I joined the military we moved in for the first time. I pairs majority of the bills due to him not being able to find a job, after some time he still didn’t give me much money to pay the bills. He was never romantic once we moved in together just loved his game. It got worse once the baby arrived, he stopped, putting effort into our relationship. I started growing resentment. I grew anger. I grew lonely. I grew into a person. I never thought I would ever turn into. After seven years together now I really feel like I can’t do this anymore. I live in this constant pattern of survival mode due to me doing everything and handling everything by myself. He puts minimal effort and wants me to praise him, but he wouldn’t do that whatever it is I asked him unless I asked him 10 times before he would actually do it making me upset and I want him to do anything anymore. I really wanna look for a divorce lawyer. I don’t have much money saved majority of the money that I did have. I helped him pay off his debt. Which were majority of my savings and now I’m in debt. Due to me paying for everything. I’ve had multiple talks, I’ve done some sessions of marriage counseling and I think I’m just really deprived of everything I’m over it so please give me any recommendations of lawyers or how you handle the situation if you have ever been in it.