u/Afraid-Lie8523

I recently went through my husbands iPad and found out my husband had a fake Snapchat (he says he does not use) as well as a multiple live streams of himself fapping on Chaturbate. I also found a video of him having sex with a man prior to us dating. Is this cheating? He did 3 streams over various months (1.5 hours each) and never told me until I found out. I’m really struggling with knowing what to do. I am 27, and upset he didn’t tell me about the gay sex because he has HIV and I take prep for him everyday, so I feel like being honest about his sex life is something he should have done from the beginning. We have only been married 6 months and have a house together.