AITA: For Yelling At My Mom To Get Her To Take Down A Post
I know the title of this is very "teenagery" but I need any outside opinion. I (18F) am in high school about to go to college, and my mother (45F) wants to celebrate the fact I'm graduating. My mother (ever since I was little) loved to post photos of me. She would post photos of basic daily life, but a lot of the time they would cross lines, like me as a toddler in a bathing suit or in the bath. I am very uncomfortable with these photos being taken, and I have told my mother several times not to post these photos, but she still does it anyway. I have pulled my father and brother into the conversation where my mom continuously says that "I'm the crazy one and I need to see a therapist." Sometimes she even says I need to be locked up for mental health evaluation and similar stuff. Recently she has been going crazy for my graduation, specifically for posting; I'm not a very flashy person, and I much prefer something small without too much going on. My mother, on the other hand, thinks that I love flashy things and will say "I'm doing this because I love you." Recently she asked to make an Instagram post for me graduating; I told her it was fine, but I wanted a photo that I approved of. She agreed, and I handed her a photo that I am comfortable with. She decided that there weren't enough photos and added another one (for context, I am disabled, Yes, I have been tested and gone to doctors, so this isn't an "I self-diagnosed" situation). The other photo she picked was me without my crutch. I sent a text yesterday about how this makes me uncomfortable, and she left me on read. Today I sent a second text asking her to take down the one photo, and she just kept sending the same response (5 times in a row, in fact) of "If you have a problem, please talk to me in person, and have a great day!" I said she was being childish, and she said that on Mother's Day she cried because I only gave her one photo for the post. She then called me right as I was leaving school, saying that I was being crazy and that she didn't know why it was so hard for me to accept the post. I told her that I only consented to the one photo and that she crossed my boundary; she, in retaliation, told me that I cross her lines daily by not doing my chores (which, btw, is always from my conditions, and I most of the time tell my parents when I am feeling unwell and need rest). I started yelling back, saying I consented to the one photo, and you don't ever listen to me. She just called me a spoiled brat and told me to get over myself because the world doesn't revolve around you. My mother, afterwards, hung up on me, and now I'm clueless as to what my next move should be. I have already told her to never post me, and she will just post very unflattering photos of me that were private. I have also tried to stop her from taking photos of me, but she sneaks them all the time, so what should I do? Am I the asshole for yelling back on the phone with my mother, and do I need to just shut my mouth?