u/Affectionate_Sky6759

I cut my shower down from 20 to 15 to 10 minutes, and my mom says it’s still a “very long shower.” Am I the problem?

My mom and I have been in this year and a half long argument regarding the length of my showers. My showers used to be 20+ minutes which I know is a long time in hindsight. Sometimes, they still are when I wash my hair. I cut them down to 15, she still said they were too long. Cut them down to 10-11, she still says that they’re too long and that I need to cut it down to 5 because 10 minutes is a “very long shower.”

A couple notes: as a result of this, I’ve been in charge of paying the water bill for the past year. I turn the shower water off in between lathers. I literally time my showers and she still somehow finds a way to turn it into an argument. She interrupts my showers, which is supposed to be my zen time. She’s even threatened to cut the water off from the basement if I continue to take showers longer than 10 minutes. She says my 10 minute showers are now contributing to the high heat bill, which personally I feel is untrue. I’m planning on moving out because I think it’s getting ridiculous, but I’m just really curious to hear your thoughts on this. Am I being ridiculous? Am I the problem?

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u/Affectionate_Sky6759 — 6 days ago

I noticed my TPS light come on two days ago and went to Costco tire shop. They checked and found that all four tires were over inflated (which I don’t know how cause the last time I had them in inflated, it was from them). They deflated them, told me that the light should go off by itself the more I drive. But the light stayed on. I went back to them that same day and they said oh well you actually might need a sensor replacement. Scheduled me for a replacement yesterday, I went and was there for an hour. When they finish, they said I’m good and that the light will stay on, but should go off after I drive steady. The light is still on. It flashes upon start up and then goes solid.

What do I do next? Do I go back a t

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u/Affectionate_Sky6759 — 14 days ago

I noticed my TPS light come on two days ago and went to Costco tire shop. They checked and found that all four tires were over inflated (which I don’t know how cause the last time I had them in inflated, it was from them). They deflated them, told me that the light should go off by itself the more I drive. But the light stayed on. I went back to them that same day and they said oh well you actually might need a sensor replacement. Scheduled me for a replacement yesterday, I went and was there for an hour. When they finish, they said I’m good and that the light will stay on, but should go off after I drive steady. The light is still on. It flashes upon start up and then goes solid.

What do I do next? Do I go back a third time?

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u/Affectionate_Sky6759 — 14 days ago