u/Affectionate_Good424

My gf and I are switches. She finishes really easily---I do not. It's like a few minutes compared to half an hour, and I feel like I have to force mine instead of just letting it happen, if that makes sense.

I'm growing insecure about this difference. Sometimes I don't feel sensitive at all. Other times I get super close but never there. I'm really jealous of how easy it is for her. It makes me not want to bottom anymore even though I lean more towards it :(

She does everything right, so I hate that my body doesn't respond. I'm considering going top only to save myself the frustration.

Apologies if this is the wrong sub.