AITA for wanting to divorce my husband after convincing me to move and then backing out AGAIN
I (32f) and my husband (30m) have been married for 7 years and together 7 years. We had our daughter (2f) which was a complete surprise baby but none the less a wonderful blessing. Anywho I’ve been wanting to move from for some time now but stopped talking about it because my husband didn’t want to. Suddenly a couple years later he wants to move which I’m totally down for of course! One second we’re looking to move to SC, then TN, then AZ and then TX each time we do the research, find areas we think we’d like best and each time he finds an excuse to not go (note that moving would be beneficial because the state we’re in now is so expensive and we’re living paycheck to paycheck). I feel like he’s really gotten my hopes up and I’d get so excited just for it to come down to why we shouldn’t move. To add on to this he’s been extremely negative about everything, complains non stop and just a straight up Debby downer. We also haven’t been out on a date in months and barely have sex as it is. I think with this and the constant getting my hopes up have finally taken a toll, not to mention the ppd I’ve been secretly going through because I want our daughter to have at least one stable parent. So would I be the asshole for wanting a divorce?