Hi everyone,
I’m looking for some guidance regarding something I’ve experienced recently. I’m completely new to the concept of twin flames, so I’d really appreciate any perspective or advice.
I’ve just finished my clinical rotations in a department I truly liked and was hoping to join—and I was in fact offered a position at the end of my rotation. During that time, I met the man who would be my future supervisor. From the very first moment I met him, I experienced something I can only describe—based on what I’ve since read—as a kind of “heart chakra opening.”
At the time, I had no prior knowledge of twin flames or chakra-related experiences. What I felt was a sudden sensation in my chest, almost like something cracking open, followed by a wave of warmth spreading throughout my entire chest. I’ve never experienced anything like it before.
When we made eye contact, it felt intensely charged—almost like an electric current—and I had to look away because it was too overwhelming. Interestingly, even before meeting him, I had dreamed about him without knowing who he was, as well as about one of his colleagues.
At one point, I also had a very strong intuitive feeling—almost like an inner certainty—that it was him. I can’t really explain what that means, and that’s part of what confuses me. It felt significant, but I don’t understand in what sense or why.
There also seemed to be a mutual awareness or attraction. He began avoiding eye contact as well, just as I did, likely because the intensity felt too strong. At the same time, he remained professionally close and created opportunities for interaction.
What unsettled me further was that I began to experience what felt like telepathic moments. On several occasions, I had the strong impression that I could “hear” conversations between him and the same colleague I had dreamt about—often conversations that involved me, and were consistently positive. This was deeply unsettling, as I had never experienced anything like it and didn’t even consider such things possible.
Throughout my rotation, I also had a series of unusually vivid dreams. Only afterward did I start trying to understand what had happened, which led me to the concept of twin flames.
This has left me quite shaken, especially because both of us are married. I do sense that there is some form of connection or attraction, but I don’t understand its nature or implications. What worries me is what I’ve read—that once this kind of connection is initiated, it cannot be undone.
I’ve been offered a position in this department, which I would genuinely like to accept. However, I’m also apprehensive. I don’t know how this dynamic might evolve, whether it can be managed or avoided, or what it could mean for a future working relationship—especially given that even maintaining eye contact has been difficult.
It has now been about two weeks since I last saw him. The sense of “telepathy” has faded—I no longer experience anything like that at a distance. It seemed limited to when we were at least in the same building. However, I do feel that my intuition has remained heightened.
I would really appreciate any advice. I’m trying to understand whether accepting this position is wise, and how to interpret or handle this connection moving forward.