u/Aestheti-x

So the thing is that we are in ldr (for sometime) but he says to me that he feels talking to me feels like a routine there is affection but it's not that visible from my side. I get what he is saying because our conversations have been repeating we only ask like wyd did you eat etc. what advice would work for us ? What things should we both should do so that we can naturally express our feelings without being performative or forced. Thankyou.