What does Guo Da Li actually buy you?
This post is abit after the fact because this happened over CNY but my mother just brought it up again so here goes
I will keep this post short but feel free to ask if you want more questions/tea
Basically, my sister got married early last year. Before the wedding, our family got along very well with her husband. But during wedding prep, my parents suddenly demand for an extravagant GDL (with fat angbaos to match)
There was some back and forth about it but the husband basically said if they want to act like he's "buying" her, he will reciprocate in kind.
Since then, he has practically refused to let my sister meet us, citing that my parents have sold her off. Entire CNY we saw them for <2 hours. They spend almost all their free time with his family.
Just wondering if this is normal? My parents are contemplating returning the GDL just to see their daughter a little more.
Some info:
My sister does not have alot of money or savings, there's no way she could have helped with the GDL
He also not very rich, hearsay he really had to explore every avenue to scrape together the $
My parents (MIGHT) have had the wrong impression that he was wealthier than he actually was when they demanded the GDL
SORRY WRONG INFO: I have told some people in this thread that my parents did not return any of it. I just checked and I was wrong: They actually returned $88 (somehow I feel like this made it worse lmao)
Edit2 / more info:
My sister is not held from us against her will. She has made it clear its her own decision to stand by her husbands wishes.
I will not disclose how much was the $$$