u/Adventurous_Data7711

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Hi everyone,

I’ve been lurking here for a while and I keep seeing the same heart-wrenching struggle: The constant anxiety of "Are they okay?" when our elderly parents living alone don't pick up the phone.

I’m a developer, and I’m tired of the current solutions that feel like "monitoring" or "prison tracking." My goal is to build something that provides peace of mind without the nagging.

The Concept: Instead of forcing seniors to press a "Check-in" button every morning (which they often forget, leading to false alarms and police at the door), I'm working on a passive sensing app.

How it works (MVP):

  1. Activity-based Safety: As long as the parent uses their phone (unlocks it, scrolls through news, or opens WhatsApp), the app silently resets a "Safety Timer." No action is required from them.
  2. The "Heartbeat" Status: Family members can see a simple status: "Active 20 mins ago" or "No activity for 6 hours."
  3. Gentle Nudges: If no activity is detected for a set period, the app sends a friendly "How’s your day?" notification with a big emoji to the parent. If they tap it, the timer resets.
  4. Escalation: Only if they don't interact with the phone and the nudge, then the family gets an alert with the last known GPS location.

My Questions for you:

  • Does your parent struggle with "forgetting" to check in with existing apps/calls?
  • Would a "passive" tracker like this feel less intrusive to them?
  • What is the "Red Zone" for you? (How many hours of no activity would make you panic?)

I really want to build something that respects their dignity while curing our anxiety. Would love to hear your honest (and even brutal) feedback.

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u/Adventurous_Data7711 — 9 days ago