u/AdventurousFee9154

Guys I’ve know a guy for years. Always got an off vibe/ an asshole vibe. We were in the same friend group. He dated a girl in the group. And at one point told the girl he was dating he had a crush on me? Odd they continued dating for a few years. They recently broke up. We met each other again at a church event. He seemed different. We hung out and dated for a few months. A broke it off because I didn’t have romantic feelings. We then true hanging out as friends for a few more but realized that wasn’t gonna be realistic. So I last minutely cancelled our plans and he dropped off an item of mine that was at his place. When I was with my ex boyfriend, I posted with him. And the guy I am talking about followed him? Kinda random. But he recently didn’t follow him anymore. Up until recently. He followed my ex and my ex followed him back. I know I truly shouldn’t be looking for my sanity but I do and this kinda made me spiral. I think that’s so weird they may have known each other through a shared sport but it’s so odd. Especially since the last time we hung out I asks him if he knew my ex because we were on the topic and he always brought up his ex so I didn’t think it was a big deal. What could this mean? This is ridiculous I’m letting this bother me as much as it is but I’m wondering if something similar has happened to anyone else and am looking for an explanation