u/AdventurousCod6145

So I’m gonna give a brief explanation before I ask if I should ask this guy out. This is a coworker I’m 19 f and he’s 20 M. I’ve worked here for 5 months and when I first got here and saw him I had really no interest in him I remember thinking oh he looks nice and really forgot about it. But as time went on I found myself looking at him and seeing him look at me. Ok ok and then one day our job added ping pong tables to the lunch rooms and one day he asked if I play. I said I mean here and there and boom we played and that day we were walking out to leave he turned back and said we gon play tmr? And I said sure! And it’s been I think 5 weeks now.. we’ve played ping pong every last 15 minute break not missed one. But but what’s really making me want to ask him out we had a coworker hangout last weekend at a bar/arcade and I felt like we kept eying eachother so at the end when everyone was getting ready to go our seperate ways I asked him if he was busy and if he wanted to go back and play a game of ping pong at the place and he said sure we went back but there were people playing so I said oh well guess we can just go home. But he went up to the people and asked how much longer they were gonna play. We sat and waited for them to finish talked a bit and played after he said he was thirsty I said me too and he asked me if I wanted to get a drink somewhere so we walked for a bit and found a pizza place he bought us both sodas and then we found a bench and talked for a bit. It felt so calm and just nice. Sitting close and just talking then we said goodbye and nothing happened but it’s like the most real a moments ever felt to me and it felt so so mutual. I want to ask him out and see if he would want to hang out just one on one sometime but I’m nervous if he maybe doesn’t want it. Should I ask first or just wait to see if he ever asks?