I was in a casual arrangement with a guy who for the first 3 months, I had a great connection with. He texted me most days, not all day, but he was checking in with me at least 2 times per day. Mostly flirty banter, some sexting, phone calls maybe once a week. Texting is huge for me, I love staying connected.
After those 3 months, this guy pulled back completely on the communication and things changed drastically. It became texting for logistics and sexting only. No more evening messages, no weekend messages, no phone calls. He said cause we were now seeing each other consistently every week, that was no longer necessary.
He and I were just FWB so I get that my expectations for communication were a bit much. But I’m curious, if you’re in a real relationship, how often are you communicating? Do you keep up with the good morning and good night messages?? Late night phone calls? I do think I expect too much with the texting and it’s probably not good that I see that as how a man shows interest.
Just relearning how couples communicate these days! My ex husband and I didn’t talk at all during the day, not even via text.