Hey ya’ll,
I have absolutely no idea how to move forward from this! I (20 F) found out that my dad has been cheating on my mom my entire life and has another daughter that he is pretty close with. My mom found out when she was pregnant with me and has kept it tucked away this whole time as she didn’t want me to hate my dad.
I’ve always had a feeling that my dad had affairs and made jokes to my friends about him having a secret family, I just didn’t want confirmation and was okay not knowing. But now that it’s real, I literally can’t think about him without being nauseous. I found the daughter and her mom (who I think my dad has been having an affair with for the last 20 years still) on social media and I can’t get them out of my mind.
My dad is currently out of town on a work trip and will be back on Friday. I have no clue how to proceed. I still live at home and I have to see him every day but I don’t want to talk or look at him.
If you have any advice, please let me know. I am truly at a loss and feel like my entire life has been a lie and is falling apart.
:P