Are we over ?
Are we over ?
M22-John and my situation-ship is F27 Trisha.
I met her aunt first at a shop which after meeting me suggested that I go out and get to meet her niece and I was like why not - what have I to lose. Her aunt is great she must be too. I am single before meeting Trisha and had been for a while.
We had great sexual passion and chemistry in person - we meet on the 7th march on a double date and had a night out - we couldn’t stay away from each other. After speaking to each other on the phone she asked me out for a coffee on the 10th march - it was a great day spent with each other had great chemistry and couldn’t keep our hands to ourselves. Due to an emergency I travelled back to my town on the 11th march.
From the 11th march - April 18th we were inseparable and were sleeping together on the phone - In this time her aunt knows of me and so does Trishas best friend - both of whom were ecstatic and vouching for us which Trisha had told me.
Trisha was beginning a new job on the 20th April and various other things with her family thus said it’s all getting abit too much for me and I just need space. Me John having never been in a relationship b4 must’ve been overwhelming for her but I was just holding up a mirror and giving back the amount of attention she was giving me.
We had a brilliant start- her friends and family vouched for me last I heard. Her aunt in a voice note sent to me on the 23rd April said she hopes Trisha will reach out to me since she’s vouching for me “team john”, and her Trisha needs space since she doesn’t cope with stress to well.
For context we are a LDR and we had been doing phone sex, watching series together, playing phone games, watching movies together and on the phone every day, talking about nonsense and all kinds of stuff from when I left her town on the 11th march 2026-18th April 2026.
Trisha asked for space “ it’s all getting too much at the moment x “ on the 18th April 2026 I accepted and said I don’t accept anything in return my door is always open. I removed her from TikTok on the 20th April, Trisha on the 21st April removed me from Facebook and instagram.
“I said you asking for space was you kindly saying goodbye ? All the best x.”
On the 1st may i reached out to her on Spotify and apologised for removing her from TikTok I just took her space as a break up and started my process of breaking up. I apologised for being a dick - but after an hour of sending this message I deleted it because I got in my head. I don’t know if Trisha ever saw the apology or not.
On the 4th may her aunt reaches out to me and wishes all the best for my uncles funeral the following day which I said thank you for.
Trisha on the morning of the funeral 5th May messages me “ good luck for today I hope it goes aswell as possible x” . which i replied later saying “thanks i appreciate that, it went well x.”
Thursday 7th may 10:00pm Trisha read and love hearted my reply, and since then there’s been no contact-
What do I do ?
Is it over ?
\- if your wondering why I haven’t travelled to her it’s because I’m unemployed right now and I start training for my new job this Monday.