Hi, me and my boyfriend have been together for a couple of years now and I’ve always known that he has some sort of porn addiction. It has gotten better recently… or thats what he has told me. I try to really trust him on this but the probelm is that I have seen that he has been watching porn after he said he stopped.
The real probelm here tho is that I’m a bit scared of what he’s looking/looked at. I have never seen anything absurd on his phone when I have looked through it but about half a year ago he had viewed a post on reddit that talked about some reeeaaal messed up stuff about porn. I asked him about it and he just kinda ended the discussion and we haven’t talked about it after that. But the thought of him actually watching does things that the post talks about makes me go insane. He’s the kindest person ever and i couldn’t imagine him doing this so thats why I kinda just let it go.
But today he asked me to check a notificaton on his phone so I went in on his phone and saw that his reddit was open again but that he had made a new account. But he had again viewed a post where the writer talked about his problems with that topic in porn. The user was deleted and the post was archived so I couldn’t see much but now I’m starting to get scared again.
So my questions are: how can I ask him about this sort of stuff and is there a way of doing it without having to tell him that I saw that he viewed it on reddit. I really need advice cuz this is something serious and I’m gonna go insane if I don’t get answers.