
I've been mixing groovy instrumental music, kind of in the vein of Bonobo or Gorillaz. Whenever I finish my mix, the higher tones like hi-hats, shakers and sometimes the brighter instruments like bells and chimes that have a lot of resonance tend to poke out. Especially noticeable when listening on car speakers. When I listen to similar reference tracks the higher tones always seem to be very present in the mix but don't sound sharp or shrill.
Is there any way bring out the highs without making them sound Sharp or too loud? Maybe some kind of specific filters or VSTs that can pull out the tones I'm looking for and resuce the harsher ones but without sounding like too much of a hard cut.
Examples
https://youtu.be/rpYJnwkNjOQ?si=DwQ-lvWB6KtSRmaz