u/Advanced-Ad9510

looking to elope and have party 6 months after, ideally keeping it a surprise until the party

I know this is very unconventional but we have always been private people even with our families as we both have complicated relationships however we do tell people big news as we like to keep face with everyone. we got engaged on holiday, we both knew we’re doing it and announced to family and everyone once home. However our wedding is booked for october and we would really like to have a more outdoorsy chill reception and sorta need good weather to do that. also i’m hoping to get pregnant this year and would like to actually party properly. how can we make sure people actually come and know this is an important thing without telling people we got married? what do we tell vendors this is? has anyone done anything like this before?

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u/Advanced-Ad9510 — 5 days ago

rsvp website that changes day of

we are eloping then having an ‘engagement’ party wedding announcement at a later date. i’m looking for a website for us to put all the info for the party and have people rsvp then on the day of/ after change to all our wedding and honeymoon photos. preferably it would be free but i imagine this would be a premium feature if it does exist so really just as low cost as possible or if anyone has any ideas of something similar we could set up

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u/Advanced-Ad9510 — 7 days ago

we’re trying to keep it very budget for our low-key wedding we’re looking for a dark green and burgundy/ dark red suit, preferably somewhere we can try on in person at least for sizing in the yorkshire area. is it even possible to get decent suits for £200 each?

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u/Advanced-Ad9510 — 8 days ago

i am looking for some sort of getting ready/ chill in the evening outfit for me and my partner who are gay men and it just seems impossible to actually find anything remotely related to chill outfits for the groom. we’re having a very lowkey wedding just us and witnesses out for bottomless brunch and then back to ours for drinks and cake. don’t wanna be in our suits all night but still want something wedding vibes. can anyone recommend anything?

u/Advanced-Ad9510 — 8 days ago