I [25F] am moving states for work and my boyfriend [25M] keeps lowkey killing my excitement
Me [25F] and my bf [25M] have been together for a little less than a year. Recently I was offered a pretty cool job one state over and this job gives me the opportunity to possibly do graduate school as well. (We live in a big state lol) It’s an amazing opportunity and I’ve been feeling excited and a little emotional about it since I’d be leaving my home state. I went through all the stages of emotions about it and I’m finally feeling excited about moving, I have about a month left before I leave. However, my boyfriend keeps kinda killing the mood. He says that he’s excited for me to go and he’s proud of me for getting this job and I shouldn’t pass up this opportunity. But one second he’s all happy and the next he starts saying things like “ugh we’ll never get to do the things we had planned for the summer” or “maybe this will be the last time we’ll get to experience this” or “damn all the guys are gona be wanting to talk to you over there” and it bums me out a lot. It makes me feel sad and guilty for being excited about leaving. Obviously I will miss him and my family but I’m only one state away and I get mad when he does things like that. Like one moment we’re having a happy funny moment and the he will stop and look sad and say how he’ll miss this when I leave. I just feel bad for getting a little mad at him whenever he does that but I don’t want to disregard his feelings.