If you’re kissing a guy and you push him away and think no is it sexual assault
I don’t know where to begin. This just happened. It isn’t my first time it’s my first time where it didn’t end with full intercourse.
The guy I met on Tinder. I wanted a relationship he did to and we’ve been talking for while a bit. He creeped me out a bit in text cuz he wouldn’t stop talking about kissing. I told him to stop that and he did for a few hours then started back again.
He kept persisting we meet and I was tired of him so I finally did and he looked slightly nothing like his profile more chubbier but people gain weight. I told him earlier I want nothing sexual at the moment or kissing cuz he wouldn’t stop talking about it. I wanted to get to know him but not sexually and he said he was sorry and understood. So we met and he has roommates and they were home too.
I know I’m dumb for meeting at his place. Rule number lessoned learned before anyone says anything.
So we’re at his and we’re talking and he just starts scooting closer to me and I’m getting weirded out. I try to move away from him but there’s not much to move. He kisses me and I’m like what the fuck and he continues and he’s a horrible kisser he’s sucking on my lips. Sticking his tongue literally down my throat he licks my teeth. So I try to push him off me. He asks me what’s wrong? And I tell him no. He’s then like okay and stops then is like if your cold you can lay down. So we do I stay away from far away. He’s persist that hey come closer. I tell him I gotta get home he says oh it’ll be okay come on. A little bit longer won’t hurt. So I move closer and he try’s to kiss me and I gently push him away I push him like 5 more times and he continues to ask what’s wrong after every time. Then he puts his arm under my head and when I try to move away he squeezes me closer to him and kisses me deeper. I push him and he starts to touch my breast. He asks to leave hickies on me and I say no. I just continue to think no no I don’t want to. I finally notice he’s hard and he takes off his pants while kissing me and says touch it and stroke it I try not to but he put my hand on it and starts I stop but he says stroke it. I wanted to cry but told myself I couldn’t. He asked before anything if I wanted to continue cuz I started to hold my breast and push him with my elbows and by the 10th time of that he asks me if I wanted to stop. I said yes I want to and that I wanted to before.
He said I want to continue to kiss you tho even if we aren’t going to do anything else. And started to kiss my neck after that I left when he got up to check his phone.