Okay there's a lot of backstory to this. so me '18F' and my boyfriend, let's call him Aidan '18M'have been dating for a month. We did date in the past, but only for 3 months. Nothing too serious, considering our age, but we've built a strong connection and know each other really well. Recently, I've been hearing about things he has said to others that make me really uncomfortable. Things like asking girls with a lisp to say words they cannot say, comparing girl's weight, and saying things like "I'd never date a fat girl", "White is right" and other shitty things. I confronted him about this and told him that it really weirded me out. His defense was that it wasn't a big deal and just a "big misunderstanding" Ever since that conversation, things have been awkward and weird. I don't know if this is something worth breaking up with him over.
This is what's hard about it. The first time we dated, was 2 years ago. I wouldn't even consider it dating, both of us didn't know what we were doing. I eventually ended it after 3 months kinda for no reason. 2 years later, i reached out and apologized for everything. I poured my heart out to him and now , if i break up with him, it will make it seem like all of that was for nothing, but it wasn't. I truly wanted to apologize, and really thought things would work out this time. Since 2 years had passed I assumed he'd grown, which i don't think is insane to think.I'm just really conflicted and don't know what to do. The truth is, I,m not happy with him. Seeing him makes me annoyed and I find myself trying to get out of hanging out and talking with him. Let me know what you guys think, cause i need some help here. Should I talk to him about it?